Choosing between abortion and adoption isn’t straightforward because it is a personal decision. Only you can decide the road you will take. As you think about both options, know we’re here for you and can help you think through each one.
Abortion and adoption are very different, but they both will change your life. Make sure to be absolutely sure before proceeding with either option.
How to Compare Your Options
Comparing huge life decisions looks less like a pros and cons list and more like self-reflection. Pregnancy is an incredibly emotional experience and each option should be viewed through the lens of what you know about yourself: your hopes, desires, and dreams.
Never be afraid to ask yourself the hard questions. Doing so can get to the heart of how you truly feel.
Here are some questions to consider when thinking about each option.
Abortion Self-Reflection
- What would my life look like after choosing abortion?
- How would I feel after choosing abortion?
- Am I comfortable with abortion being a part of my story?
- What are my personal beliefs about abortion?
- Do I understand the procedures and risks?
- Do I have any hesitations about abortion?
- Am I suppressing or ignoring any of my feelings?
With abortion, you will also want to consider your state laws and the cost of medical visits.
Additionally, if you have a history of mental health issues, conflicting moral beliefs, or existing maternal desires, this might raise the risk of negative mental health effects after abortion.
Adoption Self-Reflection
- What would my life look like after choosing adoption?
- How would I feel after choosing adoption?
- Am I comfortable with adoption being a part of my story?
- What are my personal beliefs about adoption?
- How do I feel about carrying my pregnancy to term?
- Do I understand the risks?
- Do I have any hesitations about adoption?
- Am I suppressing or ignoring any of my feelings?
With adoption, you will want to consider your comfort level with another family raising your child, how much contact you want to have with your child, and if you can reconcile this choice with your self-identity.
Seek Support During This Time
The decisions we make today determine our tomorrow. If you’re facing this life-changing decision right now, make sure to seek counsel and support from trusted friends, family, and/or professionals.
No woman should go through this alone.
At Chester County Connect Care, we provide free medical services, as well as options consultations and one-on-one coaching to make sure you feel comfortable and supported.
Schedule an appointment by calling, emailing or completing our contact form at a time that works best for you, and talk with us in a safe space.